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Introducing Ruby Lin Lane

Ruby and her Mommy

Big sister, little sister

We're a happy family

Cheek-to-cheek

Jada and her "baby"

The bus ride back to the hotel

Check out the choppers

She is So tiny!

For Brittany
We Got Her
And She Is INCREDIBLE
September 4, 2006

For those of you familiar with the Steven Curtis Chapman book titled “Shaoey and Dot – Bug Meets Bundle”, I love the beginning. It begins with “The day started out like all the days before…” But just like in the book, something special happened today. It wasn’t “business as usual” or “keep the status quo” here in Guangzhou, this city in China with over 8 million people. Today was the day that rocked the little world of the Lane household with tremors that we are sure will be felt half a world away. For today, an angel was dropped from heaven and landed softly in her Mother’s arms for the first time.

Ruby was as enamored with us as we were with her. Jada was the epitome of what a big sister should be. She is loving and nurturing and we are so glad we brought her with us to see Ruby for the first time exactly when we did. I believe the bond between them will be made stronger because of the time they spend together here in China.

Ruby doesn’t seem to have changed at all from the referral pictures we received which were supposedly taken 7 months ago. She didn’t cry, but a few times, I did see a small tear run down her little cheek. That seems to tear at the ol’ heartstrings even more than a full-out, crying-so-hard-I-can’t-even-keep-my-eyes-open outburst.

After we returned to the hotel with the babies, Ruby fell asleep on Sheila and slept for a little while. While she slept, I took advantage of the situation and took a few pictures while she was still. Brittany, the one of Ruby’s feet are for you. The one of her little hand in mine goes to show you just how tiny she really is. After her medical exam, we should know how much she actually weighs, but I’m guessing it will be about 15 pounds or so. I believe Ruby was the smallest one out of the five girls received from our travel group families. Jada looks like a G I A N T beside Ruby.

After the nap, we prepared a bottle and while Sheila fed Ruby, I had to go complete paperwork for the various governmental meetings tomorrow. I’m not sure what ALL happened, but when I returned, Ruby was not wearing the same clothes she had been wearing when I left.

Sheila here to tell the rest of the story…..I’m thinking Ruby decided to check out my qualifications. It all started when she wee-weed through all her clothes and mine. After I got through cleaning that up, it was time for the dreaded ‘first bottle’. As many of you know, getting it right the first time is critical. Well, that went over like a lead balloon! Ha. After a major struggle and 4 oz down, she threw it all up – EVERYWHERE. I knew it was bad, but when Jada said “Mommy, that stuff is dripping off your chin”, I knew it was really bad. So…after stripping her down to just a diaper and while getting myself cleaned up, my new ‘baby monitor’ said “Mommy, I smell something.” Upon further investigation, we discovered Ruby had her first diaper blow-out. So, I cleaned that up with Jada’s head blocking most of my view (she’s loves to be right in on the action). While attempting another bottle, she had blow-out number 2. All this, while screaming to the top of her lungs.

I called it all good when she drunk about 3-4 more oz and nothing came out either end :]

I’m hoping I passed her test.

The great news is she allowed us to put her in the crib with no fuss, played just a minute, and FELL ASLEEP ALL BY HERSELF. Now folks, that’s nothing less than a miracle right there!! Rumor is, she will sleep for 12 hours. We’ll see….

She can roll over and also crawl. She is so very tiny and petite. The 12m clothes are way too big. However, I know she will pick up pounds quickly.

I know you are all wishing we would shut up and just POST THE PICTURES, so that’s what we will do now.

Thanks for all your continued love, support and prayers.

We love you so much,

Richard, Sheila, Jada and RUBY!

Comments
WOW! HOW BEAUTIFUL!!!! God has blessed you richly!

Sonya
Jeff
Drew (12)
Ben (9)
Katie Lin (2) home since 3-5-05
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Posted by: Sonya on September 4, 2006 at 07:03 A.M.
Congratulations!!! She is just a picture of beauty! We are so happy for you guys! The pictures are priceless and tell such an amazing story...Keep them coming, you still have a few days left there!! See you soon at the airport.And tell Jada she looks like a natural with that doll!!!We love you all!
Sandy
Posted by: Congratulations!!!! She is beautiful! on September 4, 2006 at 07:10 A.M.
Praise the Lord - she is perfect! How awesome to read of this wonderful miracle that God has blessed you with! Keep the pictures and stories coming - you know we want to hear all about it!
Love you guys....
Posted by: Joel, Donna and Eliza on September 4, 2006 at 07:15 A.M.
Tears of joy are streaming down my face as I look at the pictures of your TWO precious angels. It sounds like you had the perfect meeting and the "perfect" mommy test!!! I am so proud of Jada, although I just knew she would be a wonderful big sister to 'little' Ruby. Ruby looks perfect! The Lord has shown such mercy and kindness to your family in presenting you with such an amazing gift of love and joy. Ruby is BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!
Posted by: Barb on September 4, 2006 at 07:21 A.M.
WHAT A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY! We are so very happy for you!
Loved the hands and feet photos and Shelia, I laughed out loud at your description of mommy's test. I'm so glad this angel is finally where she was always meant to be....in her family's arms! Jada looks so happy with her baby sister!
Love,
Angie
Posted by: Angie and Crew on September 4, 2006 at 07:26 A.M.
Sounds like the proverbial "match-made-in-Heaven"! I know that the passage of time will now finally begin to increase to its appropriate speed and even surpass it as you watch Jada and Ruby grow from your two little angels into protective, playful siblings, "secretive" teenagers and beautiful, full-grown ladies. This last year is nothing now but a faint memory of waiting for this moment. This time is yours - savor every moment. Congratulations; safe Return. See you on the 14th!
Posted by: Uncle Randy on September 4, 2006 at 07:35 A.M.
I am truly amazed at how wonderful God is!! Ruby is so beautiful and those eyes... they are killers!! I am so happy the wait is over and Ruby has a loving family to call her own. Love to you all... Becky
Posted by: becky and ken on September 4, 2006 at 07:42 A.M.
I am sitting here with tears streaming! Again, thank you so much for posting your journal! You will never know how it has touched others...like US! :)
Ruby is stunning, and so is Jada. They are both just PERFECT!
God has truly blessed your family with another angel!
Love
The Corrigan Family
Posted by: Amy Corrigan on September 4, 2006 at 07:53 A.M.
Richard,Sheila and Jada, I'm so happy for all of you. Sheila, the glow on your face is priceless. Ruby is just beautiful. Chad was looking at the photos "oohing" and "aahing". We love you and can't wait for your return home.
Posted by: aunt kim on September 4, 2006 at 08:01 A.M.
Happy Gotcha Day!! So excited to finally get new pics with RUBY in them! Can't wait to see Ruby's "happy face". She is so beautiful! Congratulations!
Posted by: Brittany on September 4, 2006 at 08:11 A.M.
Happy Gotcha Day!! So excited to finally get new pics with RUBY in them! Can't wait to see Ruby's "happy face". She is so beautiful! Congratulations!
Posted by: Brittany on September 4, 2006 at 08:24 A.M.
she is so BEAUTIFUL!! It Just took a little time but the wait was sure worth it!!God always moves on time. You all make such an awesome family. we cant wait to meet her! We love you all. Donna & Anisa
Posted by: Donna and Anisa on September 4, 2006 at 08:26 A.M.
Dear Lanes, What a thrill it was to wake up to RUBY! She is obviously going to be such an incredible blessing to your family. What a precious adorable little girl!!! Funny you mention Shaoey and Dot. I was thinking about this yesterday as Ruby was probably getting ready at the orphanage, I could picture her in a tub of bubbles with the nanny scrubbing her from head to toe. We can't wait to see her little expressions change over the next few days to ear to ear smiles when she understands she has one of the most incredible families she could possibly have. Many Congrats! Love, S, D, JD and E.
Posted by: Susan and Dave on September 4, 2006 at 09:02 A.M.
CONGRADULATIONS !!!!

She is beautiful, and we are so happy you finally have her. We hope that the rest of your trip is as glorious as your gotcha day. As Judy as your facilitator we know it will be. She was a godsend for us. Hurry home, we can’t wait to meet Ruby.
Posted by: Bill, Wendy & Ashley Nobles on September 4, 2006 at 09:07 A.M.
Ruby is beautiful, I was thinking about you all day yesterday and remembering our experience of receiving our Gao girl not to long ago. It also sounds like you had an interesting day and that Ruby was breaking you in right. If Erika is anything to go by she does sleep 10 to 12 hours at night. But it did take about 2 months for her to get back into take the 2 hour naps that they said she took. Take care and God Bless. Bev., Wayne, Joseph and Erika
Posted by: Beverly and Family on September 4, 2006 at 09:12 A.M.
Beautiful family! Congratulations, I am soooo happy for you all. Having two beautiful, healthy daughter is truly a blessing. I can't wait to see you. Love, Cindy
Posted by: Cindy Bledsoe on September 4, 2006 at 09:14 A.M.
Sheila, Richard and Jada,
Congrats on the beautiful addition to your family. She is so lovely and looks so perfect with you guys. The picture of her lttle hand in daddy's is so touching. We love you guys. Enjoy!
Posted by: The Messerschmidts on September 4, 2006 at 09:45 A.M.
Congratulations Lane family!! Ruby is just beautiful! Jada looks like such a great big sister. Can't wait to hear more about your newest gem. =)

Sera
Big Sis to Emma (3, a: 8/24/04 from Beijing) and Esther (3, a: 3/12/06 from Shenzhen)
Posted by: Sera on September 4, 2006 at 10:16 A.M.
Lane Family of Four we are so happy for all of you. Lots of love and prayers. You four are beautiful together!!

Wayne & Sandy Keys
Posted by: Wayne & Sandy Keys on September 4, 2006 at 10:26 A.M.
Lanes
Those eyes still mesmerize me, I wanted to see how much
see had grown, but I agree
she hasn't changed much from
the first photo Oh happy Day, when Jesus brought Ruby
our way! Tim & Marcella Worrrix
Posted by: Ma!rcella Worrix on September 4, 2006 at 10:32 A.M.
Oh! How beautiful she is! I cannot get over how she has such big, expressive eyes and eyebrows just like Reagan! I can also completely understand the throwing up thing too! I am so glad that she is doing so well and that big sister Jada is falling right into her roll! We are so happy for you! She looks so great with you all - a perfect match, made in heaven! We will continue to check in and to pray for you all! We cannot wait to see you and to welcome another Gao girl to TN! Who knows, Ruby, Erika, and Reagan may have been in the same room together! Do you know who her nanny is? Well, she is a real doll!

Through Christ Who strengthens us,
Sean, Angela, Ashton, Kieron, and Reagan - Gaozhou SWI - forever day - June 25
Posted by: The Bride Family on September 4, 2006 at 10:38 A.M.
Happy Gottcha day!! Ruby is beautiful and I'm so glad Jada is there to celebrate the arrival of her new sissy!! Our God is so awesome, we could never thank him enough for the blessings he gives us!!
Posted by: Mike, Paula, Jaida and Davey on September 4, 2006 at 10:47 A.M.
Congratulations!!!! So VERY VERY exciting!! Ruby has finally been joined with her family, the family that God intended her to be with. We are so happy for you. We got a laugh out of the first bottle story, we can just imagine how much fun that was. Take care and you are in our prayers. Can't wait to follow the rest of your trip.
Posted by: Michael and Starla on September 4, 2006 at 11:11 A.M.
BEAUTIFUL!
Posted by: Lisa L on September 4, 2006 at 12:15 P.M.
Happy Forever Family Day!
Thanks for sharing your journey with us through your web page. One more little girl is blessed with the gift of a family!
Gary, Sonda & Kiana Haldeman
Posted by: Sonda on September 4, 2006 at 12:36 P.M.
Congratulations! Ruby is so adorable. Can't wait to see you all. We love you & God bless your growing family!
Posted by: Terina, Ashton, & Caitlyn on September 4, 2006 at 12:41 P.M.
We got our Julia from Gaozhou on September 4, 2002!!! Four years ago today!!! Congratulations on your Ruby, who is truly a jewel!!

Elizabeth
Posted by: Elizabeth on September 4, 2006 at 01:11 P.M.
wow how beautiful, she is angellic
congrats on such a beautiful family and I am sure Jada is making Ruby's transition easier.
How blessed you all are.
Mary
Posted by: Mary on September 4, 2006 at 02:30 P.M.
I can't wait to see my two beautiful granddaughters! Ruby is wonderful! I'm glad you arrived safely. Hurry home!

Love,
Grandmother
Posted by: Garnetta "Grandmother" on September 4, 2006 at 02:40 P.M.
Wow! Ruby is absolutely beautiful! We are so happy for all of you! you make a wonderful family. Jada is such a good big sister. She will teacher Ruby lots of wonderful things! We can't wait to see you all back home. Take care and keep us posted! We love you all!

Posted by: Uncle Kurt, aunt Vickie, Weston, Cade and Aden on September 4, 2006 at 02:46 P.M.
Can't wait to see my new playmate! Hurry home!!
Posted by: Sophie on September 4, 2006 at 02:51 P.M.
All I can say is it seems to have been "worth the wait"! I am so excited to see Ruby in person. Let me be the first to tell Ruby "Happy First Birthday"!!!
Posted by: Aunt Karen on September 4, 2006 at 02:51 P.M.
Thanks for sharing your journey with us. What a thrill to "be there" with you when you got Ruby Lin. You are a beautiful family which looks so complete with your new addition. I can't wait for our family to travel to China to receive a baby sister for Juliana.
Posted by: Kolleen and Juliana Bell on September 4, 2006 at 04:45 P.M.
Congratulations to you and your beautiful family. Ruby is a precious little girl. God has certainly blessed you beyond measure. May you have a safe journey in China and an easy trip back home.
Posted by: Dana Edmisten on September 4, 2006 at 04:45 P.M.
Oh she is an angel!!! She looks so much like her beautiful big sister. I can hardly see what I am typing for the tears in my way. We thank God for this day for your family. Love and prayers, Gloria
Posted by: Gloria Dixon on September 4, 2006 at 04:47 P.M.
Congratulations on your Gotcha Day! Ruby is absolutely beautiful! Jada appears to be the perfect big sister. I remember so well the feelings of this day from our previous experience with you in 2003. Hoping the rest of your trip is as perfect as today is. Looking forward to reading about the rest of your trip. I know we've made the right decision to take Jennifer with us when we go for her little sister.
Joni and Bob
Posted by: Joni and Bob Waldron on September 4, 2006 at 04:55 P.M.
Congratulation!!! Ruby is so pretty. She has big big eyes. I am so impressive by her beauty. My daughter Xuanxuan also loves the pictures of Ruby. She said Hi to the girls.
Sissi
Posted by: sissi on September 4, 2006 at 05:21 P.M.
Jada, I am so proud of you! I can tell you are the best big sister in the world! Did you tell Ruby we prayed for her in Sunday School. I miss you Jada and i can't wait until you get home. I love you, Martha
Posted by: Martha on September 4, 2006 at 06:54 P.M.
She is SO BEAUTIFUL!!!!!

Jason and I are thrilled for you!! We can't wait to share the pictures with Rou Rou tomorrow morning!!!

Jada looks really happy and I know she is going to be a great big sister.

-Shelli
Posted by: Shelli Hutchinson on September 4, 2006 at 07:00 P.M.
Shelia,
Ruby is truly adorable. I think I can relate to your feelings in the picture where she was first placed in your arms. This is a great feeling and I am so happy for you. We can't wait to see her. We love you all and are so happy for you. God bless you all. Joy and Danielle Peters
Posted by: Joy & Danielle Peters on September 4, 2006 at 07:36 P.M.
Congratulations!!! Ruby is so beautiful.She just looks like a sweet little angel. We are so happy for you all. Happy 1st Birhday to Ruby! We love and miss you all alot! Scott,Laura,Hilliary,Peyton,and Abbey Grace
Posted by: The Laughlin Family on September 4, 2006 at 07:50 P.M.
Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday Dear Ruby, Happy Birthday to you. We are so thrilled that the big day finally arrived. She is so beautiful and so blessed to be in your care. I know now that she will never have to wonder if she will have enough love, because she will be showered with it from now on. We are still praying for all of you - I love the family picture. Looking forward to more pictures. We love you and miss you.
Posted by: Beverly on September 4, 2006 at 08:42 P.M.
Sheila and family:
What a blessing it is to see the pictures and to be able to follow your journey through this website. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Ruby and Jada are truly blessed to have you and Richard as parents and to be brought up in a loving christian home. May God Bless!
In Christ!
Kathy
Posted by: Kathy Williams on September 5, 2006 at 04:52 A.M.
We have so enjoyed reading your posts and the photos! Amanda was so excited to see you all together as a family. Ruby is so precious and you look so happy together. We can't wait to see you when you get home. Please give Jada and Ruby a big kiss and hug from us.

Love,

Dana, Charlie, and Amanda
Posted by: dana outlaw on September 5, 2006 at 05:23 A.M.
Dear Lanes, We're so happy for you!! It's wierd though, to see you there without us and the rest of our old group. Ruby is just so sweet. We wish you much happiness and safe travels. Love you guys so much!! Beth
Posted by: Beth Bridges on September 5, 2006 at 05:46 A.M.
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